We get it: you want her, and she wants to be free. But maybe she needs a little help. Here are some tips on what to do to date a girl who has a boyfriend and make it profitable for both of you.
- -Approach the situation with confidence
If there’s one thing that’s going to come off as standoffish, it’s constantly asking her if she is single each time you see her in or over text messages. It’s a little bit too direct and can make her feel uncomfortable. Instead, make small talk and come off as inviting rather than pushy. Say “hey” to her on the phone instead of asking if you two are available. - -Don’t get upset when she rejects you
Women in relationships don’t feel like getting asked out by strange men at all times. Some women don’t like being hit on by strange men, no matter how charming or attractive they may be. So, don’t take it personally, and don’t let it get you down. There is plenty of other fish in the sea. - -Make sure that you pay for yourself. If you want to show her that you respect her relationship, then make sure you pick up half of the bill when you go out if she asks for money. If a guy is willing to do that for his girlfriend, she will likely appreciate him more. You can show her the real boss in your relationship by being willing to foot the bill on a date with her (and be allowed to pay most time).
- -Be inviting and expressive. When you approach her, talk to her as if you’ve known her for years. You don’t have to be too personal, but try not to be so impersonal and scripted. Try to make the conversation a little more personal by asking about what she likes in life or what she is interested in doing. This will show her that you are interested in her, giving off an attractive, confident vibe.
- -Use humor when appropriate. Humor is an important part of a healthy relationship and a vital part of dating someone with a boyfriend. Use humor sparingly, but when you feel like this might be the right moment to crack a joke, then make sure that you do it at that moment. It’s always better to come off as if you are sincere and genuine than if you are trying to get a reaction out of her.
- -Don’t be “needy.” You don’t have to try too hard. Don’t worry about texting her every hour on the hour; this will make her feel that you aren’t confident in yourself and your relationship with her. It is much more important to take a relaxed approach and make her feel that you are interested in her instead of being demanding and overbearing.
- -Don’t show up with too many friends. When you go on a date, you will likely want to bring along your friends. This can be seen as an aggressive move, especially since it makes her feel like she has to choose between you and them. She might consider this intrusive and uncomfortable and not want to date your friends. In this case, she might see them as competition for herself or her boyfriend.
- -Be patient. It’s hard to wait for the girl of your dreams if you are really into her and she isn’t doing anything about it. But this is one of the best ways to show that you respect her relationship with someone else. It can also help you by ensuring that she is truly interested in you, just not right now. Be patient and wait until she is ready and shows interest in you; it will be much more worth it when she does.
- -Exercise self-control. You don’t want to come off as a monster, but you don’t want to give up. Your plan will work out if you can resist the urge to text her every hour, call her every day and show up at her house at two in the morning looking for more information. This will only make you look desperate, and desperate guys aren’t very attractive. Be patient, go slow, and give it time. If she is unsure whether you are serious, she might not be ready for a longer-term relationship. She may still be waiting for her boyfriend to propose so they can become a couple together.
- -Patience is a virtue It can be hard to wait for the perfect time to ask her out if she seems to be waiting for that guy. But it is much better to be patient and wait for her to leave him than to try and stalk them together. It would also show that you aren’t very confident in yourself if you tried to eliminate the competition by having her boyfriend leave. So, sit back and be patient; you will get what you want when he leaves her.
What to do when the girl I like has a boyfriend?
- The best thing you can do is to have a long talk with her.
- Explain to her how you feel and what you would like from her regarding your friendship.
- Open up the conversation by having a genuine conversation about yourself, share how you feel about your friendship and what she means to you, and then ask for feedback.
- You can also ask some advice from friends about this if this might make it easier for both of you.
How do you get over a girl who has a boyfriend?
- The best thing to do is to let time pass and see how things develop independently.
- Don’t let your emotions drive you crazy; give yourself time to heal and move on with your life.
- Do those things that makes you happy.
- Develop your interest on another girl.
We hope these tips have helped you learn how to best approach dating a girl with a boyfriend. We’ll finish this article with a reminder that it is not your job to make her happy or even to make her happy. As you have now learned, she must want the relationship for herself and you. It can’t work out if she is still in love with her boyfriend.
All you can do is show her that you are willing to be there for her and support her so that she doesn’t have to depend on anyone else for happiness. Making sure she wants you and needs a relationship with you is all that matters here.